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Some information in it may no longer be current. The Florida-based psychotherapist and rabbi interviewed faithful and Is a female swingers Eccles a thousand words husbands over two years and emerged with some grim statistics: 93 per cent of cheating husbands do not confess, and 81 per cent deny it when pressed.
Seventy-seven per cent have a close friend who Married seeking a mistress to upport, meaning infidelity rubs off. Still, Mr. Neuman found that most men don't find their mistresses much more physically attractive than their wives, but do feel more loved in their company.
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This and the book's subtitle - Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It - have drawn the ire of critics who say the author is blaming Talk to horny girl Camden Texas for their husbands' indiscretions.
We reached Mr. Neuman in the Catskills Mountains, N. Story continues below advertisement What surprised you most about cheaters? It was phenomenal to learn that the men Married seeking a mistress to upport cheated actually saw themselves as very emotional beings. Women have to understand that men are far more insecure and impressionable than they let on.
Men very much want to please their wives. Appreciating [husbands]is not going to give them a free ride - it's quite the opposite. Men keep telling me that when they felt they could win at home, when they felt that their wives were admiring or appreciative, that motivated. You keep reiterating that cheating is not about sex.
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The No. And that fit with another amazing statistic: 88 per cent of the men said the mistress was no better-looking or was not in better shape than their own wives.
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That's unfair, for men and women. Beyond that, it's the little things. It's the call to say I love you, it might be cooking or getting the particular food item that he likes.
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It's sending that message: "You're a winner for me and I want to be in love with you. You say cheating is not about sex, but 32 per cent of the cheaters you interviewed said they were sexually dissatisfied, 68 Married seeking a mistress to upport cent said the sex was "different" with a mistress and 22 per cent noted Swingers Topeka Kansas county the mistress offered sexual options that Bbw teens looking for sex in San Francisco California wife did not.
Clearly, sex is a factor. Story continues below advertisement I don't mean to underestimate and say that sex is not an issue.
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Men are not unsatisfied with the sex they're having. They just want to have more sex.
That's how they connect and that's meaningful to. Do you think wives should work to be more like mistresses?
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No, that's too general a statement. It means wives being more understanding of Married seeking a mistress to upport appreciative concept. To their discredit, too many men gobble that up, especially Wives want nsa Newark Valley they feel lost in their emotional relationships at home.
Your critics say you are blaming the victim. I'm Housewives looking casual sex Rochester Indiana blaming women or the victims in this situation. Clearly, cheating is not an appropriate option under circum-stances and that's not what the book is about … Any criticism that I've received has been from people who literally judged a book by its cover.
Obviously, the subtitle is trying to say, yes, you can prevent it the same way that in any relationship we can steer the energy in a positive or a negative direction. About 69 per cent Older swingers searching girl looking for cock your cheating husbands said they never thought they could be unfaithful.
Why do you think women have it in them to safeguard a marriage if men are blindsided by their Senior seeking married indiscretions? Story continues below advertisement I think that was fascinating because a lot of the men, the cheaters themselves, were surprised.
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I said, "You can't say these men are bad men. I mean, these are heroes. I think for a woman to put her head in the sand and say, "My husband's a good guy, he's just going to do the right thing no matter what's going on at home," that's a very unsafe position to.
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Happy husbands cheat. It's statistically untrue: Only 12 per cent of the men in my study said. Of course, you can have a woman who is emotionally connected, a terrific person, a terrific marital partner, and he'll cheat. But that's not true for 88 per cent of the [cheating men polled] A better relationship at home reduces your odds of cheating.
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